Tuesday, July 30, 2013

Goals met?

Summer is wrapping up very quickly.  Tonight we had the new Principal, Tracy, and his wife, Marvin and Jolene, and Angela and Chad over for dinner.  We meet Friday to plan Camp Dewy, have a staff party on Saturday, and then Camp Dewy is Tuesday!  Only four more water run classes, five if I sneak out the 9th.  
So how have I done on my summer goals?
1.  I didn't talk to a family member every single day but I did a couple times a week.
2.  I met this goal!  
3.  I met this goal!  I lost the same three pounds about 5 times this summer, total 15 pounds lost.  but gained. Tee hee.  
4.  Met.  This house is clean.
5.  I had Jesi over once and Tanya but didn't do as well at this goal as I would have liked to.
6.  Improved at this, still want to improve this.  Lets call this an ongoing goal.
7.  Done.  A lot more, crises, but other extras.
8.  No idea what is going on with TRU or what our role is.
9.  Hum.  Did go see Eric and Vicky in Topeka.  Once!  Did invite Ryan and Sarah over but couldn't get a date locked in.  Had George and Sheree over!  
10.  Done!  Much better than we had hoped!
11.  Met this!  
12. Yep.
13. Didn't do this.
14. Didn't get this one done but shooting for September.

Additional stuff not planned on:  dad being in the hospital, driving to LA, Scott's stroke, going to Moore twice.

Summary?  A successful summer.  Always good to let God make and change my plans.




Saturday, July 27, 2013

Family Time

It was so great to have Joel home for ten whole days!  And we got an extra added bonus with Leah home for 3 days and Mom came too!  
Last week we sat around quite a bit and Joel disappeared frequently to get his friend time in and then we went to the Lake on Friday.   On Saturday, Julie drove up and spent the day with us. Julie and I hit a few thrift stores and we all ate at aJ's pizza.  Sunday Scott had the health issue and Joel stuck pretty close Sunday, Monday and Tuesday.  On Wednesday, Leah came!  Wednesday night we had our friends Goerge and Sheree over with their three boys.  It was fun to see them.  Joel ended up entertaining the boys, ages five and seven, by playing on the iPad, kicking around the soccer ball, and catching fire flies.  We sat out on the deck and chatted.
On Thursday I drove up to pick up my Mom.  We all mostly sat around together but that was fun.  Thursday night we went to Chipotle for dinner and then later made a blizzard run.  
On Friday the girls made our Target run and got some new duds.  Then Friday night we went to Olive Garden for dinner.  We drank wine and giggled and now have some pretty good family jokes to hang onto.  
Today we sat on the deck all morning in the rain and then II drove Mom home and Leah took Joel to Newton and then will take him to the airport.  Before she left, Leah gave Professor an entire haircut on the kitchen island.  
We are always sad to say goodbye to the kids.  We go from a full house to a quiet house again where we bumble around in here.  











Cva

Last Sunday afternoon, Joel, Scott and I were sitting around.  Scott was looking at a small piece of furniture to potentially purchase on the computer and he said suddenly, "I can't see."  I blew him off pretty much.  He left the room to go adjust his contacts and said, "I'm not kidding, I have double vision in my right eye."  I looked it up on medmd and said it said he needed to go to the ER.  I told him it looked like a TIA  or mini stroke.  He said no.  Joel looked at up also.  I did see on there to give him some aspirin.  I take 81 mg aspirin so I gave him three and he accepted them.  As the evening wore on, his vision was worse and he was stumbling around.  He blamed the stumbling on the vision problem and still thinks that is the case. I had him track my finger and noticed his right eye didn't track.  That really freaked me out.   He could cover one eye and see ok and he refused to go to the ER so we went on with the night.  I was glad he got up a couple of times in the night because I would have checked on him.  
On Monday, I called the doctor and made an appointment for 11.  Scott had canceled his soccer practice and Joel drove him to the doctor.  I kept my phone close during water jog then called him right after.  Scott said Dr, Mike called an ophthalmologist who said to go to the neurologist and made an appointment for 2:00 the same day.  I went with Scott to the appointment.  Dr. kumar went over his history then checked his eyes and said, "you've had a small stroke, you have a lesion on the mid part of your brain which may or may not show up on an MRI."  He ordered the MRI and made a follow up appointment.  He also said "Don't worry, the symptoms will go away in a few days, you will be alright." We were pretty freaked out.  He said to go get an eye patch and for Scott to start taking a 325 mg aspirin every day.  
The rest of the day Monday, and Tuesday, Scott showed little improvement.  I was concerned.  I put a post on Facebook but scott wouldn't let me put anything about the stroke specifically.  By Tuesday evening, Scott said he could see much better and he could walk straight.  The plan was for Joel to drive Scott to his Wednesday morning soccer practice but scott drove by himself.  He stopped wearing the eye patch and said his vision seemed almost normal.  He still felt a little nauseous in the car.  
Thursday Scott had the MRI and on Friday, we went back to see Dr.  Kumar.  The mri was apparently normal. The doctor told the nurse to put "cva" and not TIA on the chart. I looked  it up, a stroke.  The Dr. Said there isn't always a cause and it doesn't put Scott at risk for another one.  He said his blood pressure is a little high so he wants him to get his cholesterol checked and he also ordered a coradid artery check ( the arteries in your neck).  We don't expect any problems with those.   
I tell ya what, God is good.  I didn't really know how worried to be but I was pretty scared at a few points. It makes me appreciate our health a lot more.  I am so glad that he's ok, that he can drive and do all the things he likes to do.  He said he was more tense in the Dr. Office for me than for himself.  It helped to have Joel here, too.  At one point, Joel was  being silly and petted Scott's arm.  He said, "I'm stroking you so you don't have to have any more."  It was sweet and uncharacteristic for Joel.  It was also good to have Leah and Mom here on Friday when we went to the doctor.  Hannah apparently didn't like being on the hitch and just getting an email about it.  She knows he's ok now.
Glad that whole thing is behind us!  

Monday, July 22, 2013

My Baby Rex

Rex is the best dog ever.  He sleeps by my feet or along my leg patiently waiting for me to wake up.
Then as soon as I stir, he jumps up onto my chest waiting for me to scratch his ears and tummy.
I let him out and give him a treat and put food and fresh water in his bowls then he sits next to me while I do my quiet time on the deck.
He gives himself a bath while I bathe.
He follows me around and sits within several feet of me wherever I sit.
He waits for me by the door whenever I go anywhere.
He does a happy dance when I get home, even if I'm only gone a few minutes.
(I'm still trying to figure out how to post the happy dance video here).


If Scott and I have a heated discussion, Rex gets up in my face.  If it is storming out, he gets on my head.  If I'm sick, he rests near me.  If we walk in the park, he goes after any dogs that get near me.  I actually don't enjoy that but I realize he's trying to protect me.  I've been told he doesn't do that on walks if I'm not along.
Rex is a runner which I also don't enjoy but he is starting to learn to just go out and explore the fenced backyard without trying to escape. 
Rex doesn't come when he is called so I wouldn't say he's smart or obedient but he does understand English.  Scott likes to play "go get your baby" with him and harasses him by hiding it, tying the baby up high or tying it around Rex's neck.
Rex likes other family members but the only one he will pay much attention to when I'm home is Joel.
Or anyone with food.










Saturday, July 20, 2013

Joel is home

We were planning on a week visit from Joel and last week, he texted and said he was on his way home early!  He and Zeb drove zeb's vehicle from California.  Joel said they planned to take their time, but I just felt he'd drive straight through.  I anticipated it would be late Tuesday evening and Scott guessed it would be in the middle of the night.  When I returned from an evening swim with Adelle, we pulled into the driveway and were on the front step when Joel came sauntering out from the side of the house!  He was exhausted and dirty from his travels and adventures.  It was so great to see him!

We've spent some good, quality time but I must admit, mostly it is me in the way of Scott and Joel's weird, deep political discussions and fantasy baseball trades and discussions.  They don't want to be interrupted to make, clarify, or firm up any plans including what and when we will eat.  We did manage to take a short trip to Lake Wabaunsee last night which was relaxing, enjoyable and foodtastic as usual.  Joel and I played two whole rounds of washer toss which was a lot of fun.  Joanna will put some pics up on her Facebook page and I will steal them and post them here.



I love spoiling Joel with food and cleaning up after him and doing his laundry.  Brings back memories.  He does disappear to spend time with friends periodically.  We got some pulled pork from Cox brothers we've been eating and I made chicken and noodles for him.  He sleeps a lot.  I will try to take some pictures but mostly when he's home, he is grubby and in various forms of half dressed.  I promise to enjoy his time here and not start anticipating missing him when he leaves.

Thursday, July 18, 2013

My Lazy Life

I sleep until 9 ish, spend an hour to an hour and a half on the back patio with God, soak in the soaker tub, Maybe clean, maybe not, eat a few times, then start reading.  
Today I looked at some of my Pinterest boards, specifically, my style, and chose a few to share with you here.  Just for fun.
















Thursday, July 11, 2013

A Good Life

My life may not be exciting, but it is really such a good life!  I woke up around 8 after a great night sleep and sat out on the beautiful deck sipping coffee and spending time with God.  Around 9 I got into my soaker tub then woke Scott up and we headed down to meet Nika, the decorator from Ashley furniture who came by to get ideas for us.  She showed us her ideas and we picked out furniture for the livingroom and for the new room.  It's awesome, too.  A tan, plush textured couch and two cushy chairs in bold colors and an amazing taupe shap-like rug for the livingroom and a tan, comfy corduroy sectional for the new room.  Then we came home and I grabbed leftovers from last night, the delicious enchilada casserole, then my social worker friend, Tanya, came over for clinical supervision for a couple of hours.  At 4, I went over to Homestead and met with two of the gals for small group.  We had a really great talk.  Then I zipped over to the gym and did the intensity class!  Some running and sprinting and lots of burped and mountain climbers, etc, on the bosus.  My friend Kelly is back from her honeymoon and I partnered with jessica, another friend.  Grabbed a protein shake for Scott and I and spent the evening reading and chatting with Scott about the new furniture.
Tomorrow holds the same for the morning and then water run class, some cleaning, actually picking up some of the furniture (and paying for it), and maybe a trip to the library, then some extra cleaning because I didn't do any today.  At 5:30 I'll go to step class and then after, Scott and I will go out to eat, probably Chipotle.  
Yesterday I spent the afternoon with Adelle, talked to my Dad on the phone, went to a step class, and read all evening.  Right after I closed my eyes, Joel called and we talked quite a while!
Seriously, a great life, don't ya think?