Thursday, June 13, 2013

The Adventurous Road Trip Vol. 1

I am driving to California!  I have always wanted to drive across the United States by myself for some reason and now I get to do it!  Tomorrow!  Here is  how this came  about:

Three days ago, I saw a great little car, a 2005 grey Ford Focus with only 76,000 miles, sitting in the Target parking lot with a for sale sign on it.  The price was right in the range Joel was looking for.  I called Scott and he said call the guy.  I called Joel and he said go for it.  Long story short, I bought the car, insured and tagged it, got new brakes and the oil changed and I am going to drive it to Joel.  Everything just fell into place!  I fly back on Tuesday.

I spent last evening looking over routes and decided to go Interstate over the Rockies.  The other ways take longer and are scary hot.  I am a little worried about the car going too slow up the mountains and being in the way of the big trucks but am also looking forward to the view of the Rockies!

I am spending today packing, gathering snacks and books on CD, stuff like that.  

My plan tomorrow is to teach my water class in the morning, shower and finish packing, lunch with work friends for Greg's last day, then pack up and take off about two!  I will drive as far as possible stopping for a quick bite to eat and try to make it to the other side of Denver.  About ten or eleven I will use my yelp app on the phone to find the cheapest place to stay.  I will sleep, shower, then get back on the road Saturday.  I will drive as long as I want, stop whenever I want, go through the mountains and get as far as possible into Utah then look for another cheap place to sleep.  I will get up Sunday morning and head into California and to Joel!  We'll have Sunday evening, all day Monday which is ironically Joel's only day off, and Monday night.  He works a few hours on Tuesday morning and then will take me to the airport.  For the first time that I have visited Joel, we will have a car to drive!  

Obviously there are many prayer requests here.  For safety, that the car goes well, that I find cheap, safe places to stay, health....  Also pray that Joel easily learns to drive a stick!  Ha!

So I will take you with me on this adventure.  Stay tuned!  


Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Summer so far

Shari birthday party
Scott spider bite
 My swollen eye
Hanging out on the deck 
Reading
Sleeping
Lots of quiet time
dee Brestin idols lies
Pool with Adelle 
Step aerobics
Crazy corn
Moore with Scott
Visit to dad
Season birthday at Topeka Olive Garden
Water run cold week one
Water run hot full class week two
Leah visit with David
Baa'an Thai
Professor doesn't live here anymore
Watering plants and grass
Lots of drama at Homestead
Cecelia to church with me
Finally bible study gets together!
More reading
Some cleaning

Monday, June 3, 2013

Moore

     We got an email from the church right after the tornado went through Moore, Oklahoma that they'd be taking teams down.  We emailed that we were available and then started making plans.  School wasn't even out yet.  We almost went with the first team last weekend but I did not feel emotionally ready and Scott was still not 100percent from his spider bite.  So we went Wednesday night to the meeting and committed to go this weekend.  
      I made several trips to thrift stores to get work gloves and snacks and work pants and to look for boots.  I got some army pants at a thrift store and then looked at Walmart for boots.  All they had were men's boots and they didn't fit me then a sales lady came out and showed me these awesome work shoes with steel toes, thick soles and pink on them!  Perfect!  I even found pink work gloves in the gardening section.
     Tuesday Richard Bryant face booked messaged me to ask if we were going.  I was happy since he was a lot of fun in Joplin.  We went to the organizing meeting on Wednesday and met two of the guys who would be going, Roger, and Mike.  Richard called Thursday night to say that his friend Mike was going too, Mike's first mission.  Mike was going to take his truck and pull a trailer with a skid loader so we offered to take our car, too.  Richard told us to meet at the church parking lot and we'd load up and try to get out of Manhattan by 3 putting us in Moore about 8:30.
     We left the house early all packed and ready to go.  We got the the church and waited and waited. We finally got a hold of Richard and he said he'd be there around 3.  He showed up at 3:30.  He had texted and said we should just hop in with them since the truck was a king cab.  So we threw all our stuff into the back and started to load up.  As we were loading, Scott commented that it was supposed to rain in Oklahoma and was concerned about the stuff getting wet.  I happened to notice and point out a large split in one of the trailer tires.  So they called to see if we could go get the tire changed.  They had us follow them there and we all put our soft belongings in the back of our car.  It was going to be awhile so Scott and I decided to just go ahead in our car.
     As we left Kansas and got into Oklahoma, we could see huge black clouds on the horizon.  We were listening to xm sports talk and I convinced Scott to put on a local station.  They were reporting really bad storms and probable tornadoes.  We kept going carefully then when they started reporting tornadoes for sure, we left the interstate and went to a McDonalds in Blackwell, Oklahoma.  We looked at the radar and watched the news and heard about the tornadoes causing more damage and heading to the same area was that had been hit.  There were many motorists on the interstate on Oklahoma where cars were flipped and people were injured and killed and then flash flooding.  We were prayng hard for the people.  We pretty much had decided to stay there in Blackwell when the team caught up with us.  They decided to go on and see how far they could go even through the highway patrol was saying not to go into the city at all.  
     One of out team members, Mike, had gone ahead of us by himself since he had a wedding to attend near Moore.  We got a call from him and he said that he was in Norman and a tornado was headed there, too.  He ended up riding out part of the storm in a Walmart parking lot and slept all night in his truck.
      Scott and I slept well in a Hotel in Blackwell and got up at 530 and got on the road by 6.  We got to into Moore around 745 and there was power out and cars wrecked and stalled along the road blocks from the church.  
     We arrived at the small, older Weslyan church in May just as the team was starting their devotions.  Mike arrived around the same time.  We met 6 guys from a ministry called Poured Out.  These guys run a not for profit ministry that go to all the natural disasters as well as building wells and purified water systems in third world countries.  They are the guys who built a shower trailer that we used gratefully in Joplin.  They had caravaned from Michigan with all kinds of large equipment and plan to stay in Moore for most of the summer.  They started doing this with Katrina and had more recently done a lot of work with hurricane Sandy and all the disasters in between.  These guys are sold out for Jesus and they are crazy fun.
      So we set out to work Saturday morning after devotions at around 9.  We went to one of the neighborhoods hardest hit, blocks of destroyed houses with various stacks of belongings, lots of belongings and materials strewn around the lots and smashed vehicles everywhere.  There were groups of people milling around dressed alike in either bright t shirts or white hard hats.  There are several groups that do disaster work around the country.  We were wearing neon yellow shirts that the Poured Out guys gave us.
      We pulled up near some of the skid loaders and no one really explained what to do.  The equipment was pushing piles of stuff around.  Finally they said to pull out scrap metal from the piles and put it in separate piles then eventually load it onto trailers.  Turns out, that is one of the ways the Poured Out guys cover their costs.  So perfect, recycle, help out  a great ministry and allow them to really help the homeowners.  That is what we did for much of the first day.  Richard and I had a two hour side track as we agreed to go the the scrap metal yard which turned out to be closed and ran out of gas because gas pumps need electricity and much of Moore is still without electricity.
      We slept at the church on cots.  The church is old, leaky, and moldy but the people were very nice.
      The second day, we went to the back of the lots where the skid loaders couldn't get because it was too muddy and we just cleaned.  Much of what we cleaned up was house materials; boards, roof shingles, siding, but there are people's belongings all mixed in; clothes, toys, broken furniture, dishes, toothbrushes, etc.  none of it salvageable.  It's really sad.
     This kind of work is extremely tiring and you have to let go of all sanitation and hygiene needs.  We peed in a disgusting Johnny on the spot a long walk away.  The weather was really nice, sunny, a cool breeze.  We ate fabulously because there was a group from Texas there who had taken up donations, brought a large smoker and sat there grilling brisket, chicken, steak, and bacon which we had for three meals.  And we snacked and munched all day.
      On these trips, I always pray for divine appointments.  I didn't feel that occurred so much this time but we did get lots of chances to talk to homeowners and let them tell their stories and just provide emotional support.  We heard some stories about how they rode out the storm, five adults in a closet holding the door shut, several families with kids that had been in the school where kids died but theirs were ok, three dogs that a family found unharmed later, a guy wandering around looking for his car that must have gotten carried far.  People were really scared again on Friday night when the second storm hit.  Many tried to run.  Most seemed really positive, grateful to be alive and uninjured, hopeful about rebuilding.  All of those I spoke to, I estimate about eight, expressed a strong faith in God.  We were able to offer help to two additional families.  Two ladies had pulled up and just looked overwhelmed.  When we said we'd sign them up for free assistance to get their lot cleaned up, they were really relieved and happy and hugged us.  All the people were incredibly grateful to all the volunteers who had come to help.
      The guys noticed another tire problem before we left but quickly got that changed out.  We got home late Sunday evening.
      We will be leading a group down again the end of June.  This was a good experience overall but it feels like for the effort involved, we did so very little.  I was happy to have gotten a chance to visit with so many of the homeowners.  They will need continued prayer and help.




Sunday, May 26, 2013

Summer so far

I am bored already.  I do love sitting on the patio, in fact, I live out here.  But past that....

Day one.  Friday.  Woke up at 7.  That's right, 7.  One hour past my work wake up time.  Thoroughly enjoyed my quiet time on the deck.  Cleaned some.  Got bathed and dressed.  Called Adelle and picked her up and went into work for awhile.  I already missed those people! Took Adelle home.  Read.  Napped.  Time on the iPad.  Went to step class.  Went to the late show with Scott to see Star Wars.  A good day.

Day Two.  Saturday.  Farted around.  Pretty much just that.  No, I did pick up Adelle again.  Planted some more plants, feed and watered some plants, did some cleaning.  Even ran up the long stairs near my house 10 times for cardio.  Read some more.  

Day three.  Sunday.  Did my quiet time prayer, etc, for two hours.  Went to church.  Read on the deck.  Picked up Cecelia, m y International Friend from Ecuador and we walked Anneberg trail.  Now this is cool:  I ave been praying for her and hoping for a chance to "witness".  She had previously turned down church invitations.  Today I was telling her about working in Chapman and Joplin and planning to go to Moore.  I also got to tell her about Homestead and what God is doing there.  Cecelia asked ME if she could go to church with me.  She said she is studying the Bible with a group there in Jardine!  Very cool.

This evening my eye swelled up like a crazy woman, probably an allergic reaction.

I talked to Joel on chat, texted with Leah, and talked to my Dad briefly on the phone.  Shared dinner with Scott's friend, Tyler who is staying with us briefly, and now Andy, a friend Joel grew up with is here.  

So I started out complaining about being bored and am now realizing this is a pretty good day after all!  

What will day four of summer hold?

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Summer goals

     I don't have anything planned this summer in the way of trips or big things other than teaching my water class so it's important to set some goals for myself so I don't just waste the summer.
Summer goals:
1.  Daily speak to one parent or offspring on the phone.  
2.  See each parent at least twice.  This realistically will require a drive either to Topeka, Olathe, LV, or Lake Wabaunsee once a week.  Yikes.  
3.  Lose 10 lbs.  This will be easy since I just recently added 5 from end of the year food and missed workouts.  Eating more sensibly, cutting out diet pop which makes me hungry, and teaching water class will make it happen easily, along with increased toning and a tan,  heck, let's make it 15 lbs.
4.  Clean something significant each day using the Pinterest spring cleaning lists, etc.  this involves the basement, improving upstairs. Deep cleaning down here, etc.
5.  Spend time with a friend each week in addition to Adelle and Cecelia.  This means Mary and Angela from work, Jesi, Kim, Sarah and Tanya my social work buddies, but also water class buds outside class and some of the people I run into all year that I always say, "we should get together!" But we never do.  
6.  Say something uplifting to Scott every day.
7.  Help out more at Homestead.  Already told Deb that.
8.  Get involved in TRU.  Starting with prayer and Scott taking the lead and seeing where it goes.  Have Pastor Dave and his wife over for dinner.
9.  Socialize more with couples.  Lets realistically say 4 times this summer so every other week.
10.  Go look at the furniture in Omaha and buy something for the new room and living room!  We have got to make those functional soon.  
11.  Of course read, read, read.  Blog.  Go see Leah at least twice.  
12.  Not least important, actually, already part of my routine but daily quiet time Bible study and prayer and also Dee Brestin's book Idol Lies for small group.
13.  Have the Homestead girls over for a dinner and game night, just the girls.
14.  Take Adelle to  Royals game.

Busy Weekend

      A busy weekend so I am relaxing today.  I took Friday off work and slept in, ran a few errands then Scott and I left for Newton.  We met Larry and Joanna for a late lunch with Leah and stopped by David's work place then helped Leah set up the food for her senior art show.  The show was a success.  Lots of people, around 200 came.  I worked hard just putting the food out!  Thank goodness Mojo's made the food!  We got home around 11:00.
     Saturday morning I went to the grocery store and then the nursery and bought beautiful rose bushes and flowers for the front and Scotty planted them for me!  So pretty!  And our grass is coming up!
     Saturday afternoon picked up Adelle and took her first to Elizabeth, my intern's grad party.  Then we raced all around town from grand mere to timber creek to 5 different graduation parties!  She did great but ate a lot of cake.  I resisted a lot of cake.
     At 4 I picked up my International buddy and her friend from Walmart and gave them a ride home then dropped into bed for a quick nap.  Scott had woken up Saturday morning all swollen up in the face and itchy and pink all over we think from a spider bite.  He was loaded up on Benadryl but felt like poop.  He did manage to get the planting s done, though.
     So around 5:30, I jumped in the car and drove to Topeka to pick up Julie and we found our way to Shari's birthday camp out party at Lake Perry!  It was fun.  Good to see Emily, Asa, Larry  and Jo again, season and Ian, Max and Sam, Lauren, reggie and the girls, and of course Shari and good to spend time with Julie.  There was a band, good food, cute t shirts with sayings for Shari's 50 years, and Shari's cute camper.  We took a look at the radar and zipped out of there just on the nick of time!  I raced home with the wind and lightening bearing down and made it back to MAnhattan 10 minutes before the storm!  It also must have stormed in the night.
     So today I'm taking it easy, sitting on the back deck before the next storms, catching up on phone calls, and resting up before the final week of school.  A busy weekend but a very good one. 





Thursday, May 16, 2013

School is almost out

I've had a great year and gotten really close to the 8th graders this year. I love the new staff who now seem like they've been there forever. And we are rapidly approaching saying goodbye to more staff including Greg. The end of the school year is always super intense with the kids acting out and tons of transition meetings, and tons to do. I always feel like I'm neglecting my kids and just put out fires the last few weeks. This year has been no different. We've had drugs and knives, depressed kids, kids in the hospital, lots of bullying.
This week we also showed the movie Bully to all our kids. It was super hard work to prepare for and really emotionally intense. I've had to deal with a lot of criticism for showing it at people assumed I was the one who decided to do it. It wasn't against it, just thought it was horrible timing. And Greg has been so crazy busy getting ready to transition to the high school that much of the work ( and the negative comments) fell to me and to Angela. Kinds of needed things on a sour note. I have to let that go and focus on the kids. It's going to be hard to say goodbye to many. And to Greg. I am so tired. But I have tomorrow off to go to Newton so that gives me a three day weekend to get tested up for next week. Three and a half more days!